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How Important Is It To Set Healthy Boundaries With Your Partner?

Shirley Higgins Aug 28, 2022
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It’s important to be vocal about your needs with your partner, irrespective of whether they like it or not! The conversations could be literally about anything that you want to convey. However, the possible friction may scare you from saying what you feel. 

According to psychologist Lisa Bobby, your relationship will strengthen if you communicate with honesty and compassion. She also added that it could contribute to lowering your anxiety levels as well. According to Lisa, setting a boundary is about telling what you need to do for your own good instead of telling your partner what to do. She says that this way, you’ll be conveying your limits to others without trying to control their behavior. It’s a way of conveying what you will tolerate and what you want. Here are some guidelines on how to voice your boundaries to your spouse.

Timur/Pexels | It’s crucial to voice what you want for your inner peace.

Setting Boundaries In A Relationship Can Be Hard

When you are in a relationship, you feel you are responsible for the other’s happiness. But we must change this idea as we must take care of our happiness and let others take care of themselves! There will be days when you’ll feel that you’re being selfish. However, once you set boundaries, this will not be the case. When you want to change for good, it’s crucial to realize that you are trying to break the system. Hence, some sort of protest and pushback is always expected. Needless to say, the system would change your mind, but you do not have to give in.

Alex/Pexels |Sometimes, your partner may not like what you want.

It’s Okay To Say ‘No’

Your boundaries should focus on what you want to do and on your actions. For example, if you get distracted if your husband messages you at work, you should convey that you get anxious when you receive his message during working hours, and you will only be able to reply during break or after work. Stating your boundaries doesn’t mean you don’t care. 

Therefore, while declaring boundaries, you should tell them how much you care for them, and that self-care is equally important for you! The key to being vocal about your boundaries is to stay persistent about it to make a change. Women especially feel they need to defend their decision if they are doing something for themselves for a change. This is where social norms stop us from doing what we want. Hence, women often experience a lot of pushback on setting healthy boundaries, which might even be good for others. If a situation like this arises, it’s okay to say no.

Alex/Pexels |Be persistent about the change you want in your life.

Be Thoughtful And Selective

Boundaries are not military rules that are hard to digest. They are value-based, and creative, and should be communicated with compassion and love. Be wise in selecting your boundaries. It’s preferable to set boundaries against actions or words that have a damaging effect on your life. Make few but well-thought boundaries.

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